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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy is a nonfiction psychology and relationship book by psychotherapist Jessica Fern. It applies attachment theory to consensual nonmonogamy, especially polyamory, and asks how people can build security, trust, and emotional stability in relationships that involve more than one partner. Rather than treating monogamy as the default standard for healthy attachment, the book argues that secure attachment is created through relational experience, not through relationship structure alone. Fern also brings a trauma-informed lens to the subject, showing how past wounds, internalized shame, and cultural assumptions can shape jealousy, fear, and disconnection. The book is aimed at readers in CNM relationships, as well as therapists and counselors who want a more inclusive framework for supporting them. Its purpose is both explanatory and practical: it translates psychological theory into tools for creating secure bonds across multiple relationships.