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The Betrayal Bind (Second Edition): How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst by Michelle Mays is a nonfiction self-help and clinical psychology book focused on healing after sexual betrayal, infidelity, and relational trauma. Drawing on attachment theory and her professional work as a licensed counselor, Mays explains why betrayal by a romantic partner creates a uniquely destabilizing conflict: the source of pain is also the person the betrayed partner is wired to seek for safety. The book is designed for betrayed partners, but it also speaks to therapists and others supporting people in this situation. Rather than treating betrayal as only a relationship problem, it frames it as an attachment injury that affects identity, trust, shame, boundaries, and the ability to regulate emotion. Its purpose is to help readers understand what is happening to them, recognize harmful dynamics such as gaslighting, and begin a path toward recovery whether or not the relationship survives.